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John 4 | Engagement at the Well

Mike Im

August 19, 2022

Break the ice: What’s the weirdest dream you can remember having?

Read John 4:7-26.


7 A woman from Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” 8 (For his disciples had gone away into the city to buy food.) 9 The Samaritan woman said to him, “How is it that you, a Jew, ask for a drink from me, a woman of Samaria?” (For Jews have no dealings with Samaritans.) 10 Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.” 11 The woman said to him, “Sir, you have nothing to draw water with, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? 12 Are you greater than our father Jacob? He gave us the well and drank from it himself, as did his sons and his livestock.” 13 Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, 14 but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again. The water that I will give him will become in him a spring of water welling up to eternal life. 15 The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I will not be thirsty or have to come here to draw water.” 16 Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.” 17 The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; 18 for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.’ 19 The woman said to him, “Sir, I perceive that you are a prophet. 20 Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you say that in Jerusalem is the place where people ought to worship.” 21 Jesus said to her, “Woman, believe me, the hour is coming when neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem will you worship the Father. 22 You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him. 24 God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” 25 The woman said to him, “I know that Messiah is coming (he who is called Christ). When he comes, he will tell us all things.” 26 Jesus said to her, “I who speak to you am he.”


Discuss the text.

Jesus crosses social, shameful, and spiritual barriers to demonstrate his love and grace for his bride.

  1. How does this text change the way you think about God’s nature or character?
  2. What did this text reveal to you about human nature or yourself?
  3. Jesus did not ask the woman about her husband to condemn her, but to reveal that he was offering her a future even though he knew all of her past and her present. What does Jesus’ interactions with the woman reveal to you about how God sees you?
  4. Who is someone to whom you can extend the calm and patient presence with which Jesus loved the woman at the well?

Close in prayer. Thank God that he loves us even though he sees all of us. Ask that we might see others and ourselves the way Jesus saw the woman at the well. Pray that God would form you and your Home Group into wells of living water as you go out into a dry and thirsty world.



Mike Im

Connections Minister

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